he one thing that has never been a trend is heels. Invented in the 10th century and originally made for men (ironic in today’s conflicting society), they are the one statement accessory that has always held its place. Yet over the years, despite their best efforts to keep up with contemporary style, women seem to have turned away from the beauty of a stiletto and fallen victim to the adidas Sambas.

Now, I am not one to judge, but when did we collectively agree to stop adding that touch of charm to our looks? At some point, heels became an occasional piece. A shoe that could only be showcased when the time was right, rather than something that could exist within our everyday wardrobes. As someone who owns fewer than five pairs of trainers, I strongly disagree with this current view. Honouring the many women who have stood their ground in fabulous heels, pairing them with looks ranging from mundane to sensational, you will never find me without them.

I'll admit, heels have built my character. The simple click-clack sound scratches my brain just enough to empower me. Truly, I feel on top of my game when I wear my everyday slingback stilettos. Why wouldn’t I? They provide height, hidden agendas, empowerment, and a profound sense of confidence. But beyond all of that, they define your character. In a world that continues to enforce individuality, please, tell me why we refuse to customise our characters to who they truly are? What we wear has always been one of the simplest ways to communicate something about ourselves without saying a word, and heels have a way of making that statement feel far more deliberate.

With the question of authenticity reaching a wider audience, I have noticed a rise in heels. After searching the depths of social media, I am finding that the everyday heel is circling back, and women are finally falling back in love with their femininity. A common look today is heels with jeans, often bootcut or flared. The perfect ensemble that stays timeless and relevant, no matter the trends. Something about the contrast of denim with a refined heel makes an outfit feel instantly considered without looking as though you have tried too hard.

However, that is the issue. Heels are not trends. They are not something to buy on impulse, then shove in the back of your wardrobe once the new Nike Air Max trainers come out; they are an investment piece that can complete any look. Trends come and go, but true timeless pieces will always be stronger than any passing trend. A good heel does not need to be reinvented every season to remain relevant. It simply needs to be worn, styled, and given the opportunity to become part of your identity.

One thing I will never approve of is wearing heels with skirts or dresses. The sheer appeal of this truly makes me heave. For many, comfort comes before style, and while I love structured silhouettes and six-inch heels, I do fall into the pool of dressing more for comfort at times. But when I tell you my comfiest pair of heels are from Primark for £14, please listen. Do not waste your time compromising who you are for contemporary standards; find what suits you, dress to impress yourself, and find comfort in your own beauty.

Heels are made to elevate a style alongside elevating your identity. Do not misunderstand me: heels are a work of art, and the beauty of designer heels is unmatched, but do not break the bank for the YSL heel that will break your feet; settle for the comfort sole that high-street brands like New Look and Primark can offer. While I will never shop there for anything other than heels, I can easily admit that their collections have a variety of brilliant starter heels. There is little point in owning the most beautiful shoe in the room if you spend the entire evening wishing you had taken them off.

If we are going to commit to the heel, we need to do so with confidence and authority. No contemporary kitten heels. I fear that there is a fine line between what a true kitten heel is and what social media is telling us is a kitten heel. If the heel is less than two inches, you may as well wear flats. Committing fully to the silhouette makes the heel feel considered rather than an afterthought.

Whether we wear heels to feel empowered or to add to our look, there is more to the standard heel. The beauty of fine craftsmanship, paired with the comfort of the shape, can be truly remarkable.

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